Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Short-lived


Look at that big belly! I laugh every time I look at this pic. Can you tell Daddy dressed him today? And that shirt is a bit small, huh?

Elijah's good health was very short-lived. I just knew that throw-up session last night meant something. He woke up this morning full of snot (again) and he had a pretty crabby day overall. I took his temp before putting him to bed and he was at 101.2! Yuck! We talked to the on-call cardiologist and he said just to keep a close eye on him through the night. If his temp is still that high tomorrow, I'll bring him in to get checked out to make sure he doesn't have something more than just a cold.

We seem to be walking such a fine line right now and it's getting a bit scary. We are trying to be as positive as possible because we just know it's all going to be ok in the end. God has a special plan for our little man and we know that. We just have to chug along for a little bit longer. Please pray for our Elijah. He NEEDS good health so we can get his heart all fixed up, and his heart is so so ready to be fixed.

Here's my list of GOOD things to be thankful for today:
We're not in the hospital.
Elijah is chunky.
E felt better yesterday, so we know he CAN get to the point of feeling better again (and he will soon, dangit).
E didn't throw up all day!
I got to snuggle E up tonight and I loved it.
I have the world's best employer.
We got approved for the RSV shot (after mucho complaining and with my employer backing me up).
Dan gets to go to work tomorrow and I'm so excited for him to get out a bit and not spend another entire day with a sick baby.
We are going to get out a bit Friday night after E goes to bed. We are in serious need of that.
It's not 10 degrees outside and the snow is almost all gone! Wwooohhoo!
I have THE world's best husband, hands down.
(I asked Dan to tell me something he's thankful for today and he said, "Your legs." I told him I couldn't write that and to tell me something else. He said, "Fine, your lips." I gave him a funny look so he thought for a second and then said, "Baby laughter.")

I'm not going into work tomorrow or Friday and it feels so good knowing I can be here with Elijah all day long to give him as much mommy love as I possibly can. Mommy love cures everything!


Checking out the new chair. He looks so cute in it!

I forgot to mention that I did call Dr. G today but he wasn't in the office so he's going to call me first thing in the morning. We'll see what he thinks about this sickness and whether or not we'll have to reschedule surgery. NOooooo!!!!

14 comments:

Sarah said...

Just got done with dinner here and wanted to check on little Elijah. I love that you posted a list of things to be thankful for... you are such an inspiration to me today. Thanks. Enjoy your precious little man on your days off.

Anonymous said...

Your are an amazing mama! Your list is a blessing to read (and I loved dan's add-ons). Glad that you have get-away time this weekend, and let me know PLEASE if I can take a shift to hang with him (before or after bed) so you can guys can get some downtime before next week. XOXOX
Ann Marie

Samantha said...

What wonderful things to be thankful for! I love the big belly hanging out...that is so darn cute!

I am praying for Elijah to get all better by the 15th and NO POSTPONING surgery...he is just being a stinker...tell him to cut it out!

It was so nice talking to you earlier. Thank you so much for the phone call, text messages and messages. You are a wonderful friend.

Hang in there...Tuesday will be here before you know it and Eli will be on his road to recovery.

Lots of love,
Samantha

jencooper said...

Okay, seriously that is some funny stuff!! Not only is the big belly hanging out - the clothes TOTALLY match. Bennett has that same shirt - gotta love Target.

I know that Elijah is going to feel much better tomorrow. I know that you will feel much better as soon as you talk to Dr. G.

Keep us posted!! Lots of prayers with the Porta family name!!

<3,
Jen

Jane said...

Checking in every five seconds ;)

We're in a similar boat over here, hoping your little guy gets better soon...

Kathy said...

OH my GOSH...that kid of yours could not get any CUTER!!!
I'd take a plane trip..in the snow...to munch on those cheeks!
yucky snot..BE GONE!!!
I DO hope that little man starts feeling better...COlds are the worst...nothing you can do about them.
I'm glad that you get the next few days off of work...you'll fix him right up!!!
And...Dan did a better job than Joe would have in the clothes department. I LOVE that first picture....good pic!!!
Love to you guys,
Kathy

The Portas said...

It's all about comfort over style!

Like Papa, like son.

Ann(ie) said...

Your hubby and my hubby would be close friends!! hehe. That is one stinkin adorable picture, though. I'm so impressed with your little family. Even during the rougher times you guys are positive and impress the hell outta me. I'M SO happy you got approved for the RSV shot. Mama love is the best and kiss that little munchkin man for me. xoxo. Thinking of you guys.
OH and I need to git Ben one of those chairs!

Anonymous said...

Elijah looks sooo big in that chair...way to go, Elijah!

And, good for you for taking some time out with your hubby. Have fun, you two. You both deserve a little time alone together.

Still praying for you here...but, I know everything will be OK.

xo

Anonymous said...

Meg, I am so inspired by your and Dan's strength and grace! Elijah is so lucky to have such wonderful, attentive and caring parents.
I am thankful for the stress-relieving belly laugh I got from Eli's photo!
T-minus 5 days....I just know that surgery is going to be a go on Tuesday!!

Lisa

Ehlan said...

Hope Elijah is feeling better today! Olivia has that chair too--I love it!

Colin's Blog said...

Get better Elijah! No more stressing out your parents. He looks a lot better though. Love your thankful list!! I need to start doing that everyday. Keep the pics coming-love that little guy!!

Unknown said...

I love to hear all that your positive about.

What a lil' ham he is!! I just want to eat him up. Give him a big hug from me!!

I'm praying the snotty nose goes away quick and surgery will still be on the 15th.

Hugs,

Vanessa

Janet said...

Hi, Your story brings back so many memories. Trusting that all works out as planned for the operaiton and that you are all strong. My son had his fifth open heart surgery last March and requires more. We value our time with him so much and continue to trust that he will continue to amaze the doctors wiht his fighting spirit. I will be praying for you all.
Janet
South Africa